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Five Bachelor Party Rules to Live By

Five Bachelor Party Rules to Live By

Whether you’re the groom, the best man, or just a buddy who is planning to tag along and help the soon-to-be married man celebrate his last night of single life, it’s important to follow the unwritten rules of bachelor parties. These apply to the stereotypical bachelor party (think strippers, booze, and general debauchery). If you’re planning a co-ed wine and cheese party or a game of paintball, you’re on your own.

#1: No Cameras

Following this rule can prevent a lot of problems. While the groom will be engaging in (mostly) innocent fun, he’ll still probably do some things that his future wife wouldn’t approve of. It’s best if there is no record of the night’s activities that could be used against the groom or fellow bachelor party attendees later on. If you want some photos to mark the celebration, take them at the beginning of the night, and then put the camera away.

#2: No Cheating

Most grooms want to blow off a little steam before their big trip down the aisle, but the vast majority have no intention of actually cheating. Unfortunately, once they’ve had a few too many shots and their judgment skills are sufficiently impaired, disappearing into the back room for a few minutes with that blonde stripper suddenly seems like a good idea. Do your buddy a favor - stop him from committing any thoughtless acts of infidelity. You’ll save him a lot of future worry and heartache.

#3: No Checking In

Bachelor parties are strictly guys’ nights, which means no checking in with wives, girlfriends, or even the bride. As long as the bachelor party is in progress, the entire party is officially unavailable, so turn those cell phones and beepers off.

#4: No Drinking and Driving

Unless you have a few friends who love being designated drivers while everybody around them gets completely smashed, everybody at the bachelor party will be well over the legal limit. Arrange for transportation well in advance of the actual party. If you’re just going to one club, a cab will suffice. If your group will be bar-hopping, hiring a limo for the evening might make more sense. A limo is a high class way to travel that is sure to attract lots of attention, and renting one can actually be cheaper than taking cabs for the entire evening.

#5: No Wussing Out

The groom might have to mow his lawn or go look at cakes with his fiancée the next day, but there are no excuses for leaving a bachelor party early. The groom is obligated to party until the wee hours of the morning, and anybody who leaves before midnight should be mocked and ridiculed for the rest of his life. It’s a bachelor party - an early night simply isn’t an option.

Stress and Hormonal Acne

Does hormonal acne exist? People have experienced for eons how when they get stressed they tend to break out. Is this experience a coincidence or is it true? Evidence suggests that it just may have some scientific merit. Stress can directly affect hormone levels in the human body, and hormone levels most definitely have something to do with acne.

How do we know that hormone levels affect acne? Well, people don’t even get acne before puberty sets in. It is the maturation of the oil glands that sets acne in motion, and a hormonal cascade is responsible for this maturation of oil glands. We also see people on testosterone (steroids) experiencing severe cases of acne. Also, women going on and off of birth control pills see acne symptoms.

So how does stress affect hormone levels? Stress activates the adrenal gland. Especially in women, testosterone is produced in this gland. Voila, increased stress = increased testosterone = increased acne symptoms. Men produce less testosterone in this gland, but stress affects hormone levels in men nonetheless.

So what is stress anyway? Stress can be physical or mental. Mental stress is what people usually think of when someone says they are “stressed out”. Mental stress can include financial difficulties such as not being able to pay the mortgage, marital troubles, too much work, a hectic lifestyle of driving the kids to and fro, feeling out of control at work, or a stressful event lurking in the future. But, stress can also be physical. This is something people think less about, but it can affect the body in similar ways and disturb hormonal balance as well. Examples of physical stress include not getting a good night’s sleep, doing drugs, not exercising at all, or even over-exercising.

So the answer it may seem is to avoid everything in life? Obviously this is not possible. Everyone will experience stress. It’s part of being human. So rather than stressing about stress, it’s a good idea to simply handle stress in the best way possible. First things first, get a good night’s sleep and get your body moving on a regular basis. Those two things will help immeasurably. Then, if you’re wanting to take calmness to the next level, meditation is always a great way to go. People throughout the centuries in the East and in the West have espoused the virtues of mindfulness and breath work. There’s no need to reinvent the wheel at this point. Paying close attention to the breath on a regular basis is simple and effective. Turn on Oprah and you will find other ways of handling stress. Oprah keeps a gratitude journal. Practicing gratitude is a basic way of keeping focused on positive thoughts. Positive thoughts engender more positive thoughts and life just keeps getting better. Finally, when something stressful is lurking, face it head on. I know that sounds tough, but it’s tougher keeping it in the back of your mind. Rather, face it, do the work needed to prepare for it or complete it. This will develop trust in yourself and will allow you to better handle the next stressful situation that comes your way.

Maximizing Profit and Efficiency for the eBay Business

Maximizing Profit and Efficiency for the eBay Business

These days, more and more people are trying their hand at selling on eBay. They put up their auctions and take a stab at the shipping weight of their items and wait for the bids to roll in. Sometimes, the bidding is great and the seller makes a nice profit. Other times, the bidding is lower than expected and every penny counts. When the margins are slim or the volume of items sold is high, it’s more important to be accurate in estimating your shipping costs.

While eBay does have a shipping cost calculator based on weight and destination that you can use, it relies on you to enter the correct weight of your item. If you don’t know or are using a bathroom scale, chances are you’re wrong. If you bring your item to the post office and they weigh it, you may end up with higher shipping charges than you previously anticipated. Those higher shipping charges might even mean that you lose money on the entire sale.

Using a good shipping scale can provide you with accurate shipping weights to prevent this problem. Of course, this is the age of computers, high powered electronics and the internet, so many of these postage scales can do more than just weigh your package. Several models of Detecto Scales and Pelouse Scales include the ability to calculate the exact postage costs for the package. They can access US Postal Service, UPS, and Fedex rates through the internet and automatically provide you with an accurate shipping cost for your item.

Many of these modern scales connect to your computer and can interact directly with postage printing programs to save you a trip to the post office. Just leave the outgoing letter or small package for your postal carrier or call for a pickup from your shipping carrier and you’re all set. This is particularly handy if you have a number of packages to ship each week.

While professional series shipping scales for high volume commercial applications can run over a thousand dollars, there are many very good units available between $25 and $100. If you are starting a business on eBay or are already running one, consider this small investment to make sure you are maximizing the profit from each sale. The cost of the scale can actually be a tax deductible expense against your business income if it is dedicated to business use only.

If you are in business as a carpenter, you’ll need a hammer. If you’re a plumber, you’ll need a wrench. As an eBay business owner, the right tool for the job is an accurate shipping scale and a printer that lets you buy and print your own postage online. Quicksupply.net has a wide variety of POS scales that will fit your budget, no matter how big or small your internet business is.

Brief History of Copyright Law and Infringement

Brief History of Copyright Law and Infringement

The oldest precedent of copyright infringement was trialed in 546 AD where St. Columba, an Irish missionary, was found guilty for copying a Latin biblical work.

St. Columba wanted the text of the Gospels, so he borrowed the only such book around, belonging to Finnian of Druim, and made a copy. When Finnian found out, he demanded not only the return of his text, but the copy as well. The king, when called upon to arbitrate, decided in favor of Finnian, announcing the famous quote: “As the calf belongs to the cow, so the copy belongs to its book.”

It’s interesting to note that the king’s metaphoric words also had a literal meaning as the book’s text was scribed on pages of calf’s hide. Furthermore, as antidotal reprieve, St. Columba, being unhappy with the king’s findings and seeking a higher authority, went to war with Finnian and won, thus retrieving what he considered his copy of the sacred book.

Nonetheless, it took another 1155 years before written law was to match this king’s visionary stance. In 1701 the British Parliament enacted the Statute of Anne, forbidding unauthorized persons from printing or importing another person’s book.

Formal copyright grew with technological advancement and the use of the printing press. Authors sought to control publication of their work by granting certain printers publishing rights.

Later in 1710 a revision of Statue of Anne made copyright a fixed period of protection (14 years with renewable of subsequent 14-year periods if the author was still living). This revision prevented a monopoly thus creating “public domain” literature by limiting terms of copyright.

…and then came the Internet.

While the general principles of copyrights and the protection from infringement have not changed in three millennia, the digital age and associated communication mediums have changed dramatically. Legislation was presented with a barrage of new challenges since current law, when created, had not considered electronic or digital encoding.

Digital Millennium Copyright Act

Copyrighted material could now be freely accessed by a global audience thus a need arose to create new laws to protect copyright in the digital age. THE DIGITAL MILLENNIUM COPYRIGHT ACT (DMCA) OF 1998 reshaped the future of protecting authors’ exclusive rights within the United States. Since that time, many other countries including Canada, most of the European Union, Australia and many others have enacted their own legislation based on the original framework of DMCA.

The DMCA is a bill designed to bring copyright law up to date with digital age. In part, to aid the protection of digital works and outlaw the manufacture of, or “trafficking” in, technologies capable of circumventing technical protection measures.

It’s noteworthy to mention, within the technical amendments of DCMA, the Copyright Act requires the rightful copyright holder to register their work with the Copyright Office prior to making any claim on copyright.

While it is understood that every author has an immediate “common copyright” on the creation of a work this is by definition only an “implied” copyright noting that the originating author is the entity that may claim copyright. An implied copyright, however, does not sustain the burden of proof which is needed to demonstrate a distinct difference between exclusive copyright, fair use, and unauthorized use.

In simple terms, when copyright is being disputed (thus an alleged infringement has occurred) and a court of law is needed to remedy the claim, each party has previously sworn, under the penalty of perjury, that they are the rightful copyright holder (or disputing based on fair use). By default, a party with registered copyrights automatically sustains a burden of proof. A practical secondary advantage of mandatory registration prior to litigation is the likely distinction that the work in question is not of public domain.

DMCA Global Warming

Protecting your exclusive copyrights within the framework of DMCA is much like the apparent (or illusive) effects of global warming.

To clarify, global warming (if true) is one of the most serious challenges we face since the impact is a global one. Protecting the health and economic well-being of our planet for future generations means we must act immediately.

Unfortunately, the evidence that suggests global warning is occurring can also be postulated in a defense that the observed effects are a naturally occurring one.

Coincidently, copyright is also global matter with similar economic implications, and the provisions of DMCA merely aid to postulate a claim of copyright without necessarily sustaining a burden of proof that a claim in valid.

The practical analogy of global warming is worth mentioning simply because your mere “word” (your sworn statement, under penalty of perjury) that you are the author of a work can be met with another person’s “word” (their sworn statement, under penalty of perjury) your claim remains unsubstantiated leaving anyone else involved in a quandary as to whom to believe.

In retrospect, the greatest threat to copyright as with global warming is ignorance. Lack of understanding in copyright and being oblivious to infringement can have catastrophic effects when the author eventually learns that another person or company is making commercial gains on their exclusive rights.

Online Copyright Infringement Liability Limitation

As the Internet matures, the liability to online service providers grows. With an estimated 30 billion pages of freely accessible and near unlimited information, copyright and trademark infringement is the Achilles heel. Online service provider that act as information hubs aggregating likeminded topics are an ever-increasing easy target of infringement claims.

One of the major copyright amendments that DMCA put into effect was a doctrine to protect intermediaries from being prosecuted for illegal acts in which they were uninvolved.

DMCA Title II: Online Copyright Infringement Liability Limitation (Section 512) provides exemptions for certain online service providers with a complete bar on monetary damages (a safe harbor) in the event an alleged copyright infringement occurs.

Search engines and web hosting companies are the two most prominent service providers having a safe harbor against copyright liability. So long as they, upon being notified of a claimed infringement, adhere to the safe harbor guidelines such as expeditiously removing, or disabling access to, the materials claimed to be infringing on the copyrights or another.

What this means to the average business that finds unauthorized copies of their copyright work being exploited by another firm, is immediate termination to minimize monetary damage. Online service providers requesting a safe harbor from copyright claim have absolutely no choice but to abide by the terms and conditions of DMCA, no matter if a claim is validate or invalid.

In 1998, the United States unanimously ratified DMCA for protection of copyright material in digital forms. However, as this was US legislation only an estimated 1/6th of all online users were subject to the terms of DMCA, making enforcement a continuing challenge.

A significant offset to these challenges is that all major search engines are of U.S. origin. Having a combined readership of over 90% worldwide users and each having adopted DCMA safe harbor guidelines greatly assists in curbing unauthorized use of copyright material. However, without the support of legal recourse on a global scale, a single nation DMCA is very much like plugging a hole in a boat with an ice cube. The flood is arrested only in the short-term.

DMCA safe harbor conditions denote a takedown process immediately upon being notified, whereby, an alleged infringer can choose to counter-claim rather than admit to unauthorized use. Once a counter-claim is received and the copyright holder notified, they have 14 days to file for legal recourse. Unfortunately, if the alleged infringer is not of US origin, neither DMCA provisions nor U.S. copyright law apply. Under the terms of DMCA, should the online provider not be in receipt of documentation indicating civil (or criminal) action has commenced in the specified 14 days, the alleged infringing material is returned to its previous status.

Euro Millions Lotto

Euro Millions Lotto

The Euro Millions lotto was introduced by the national lotteries of France, Spain and the UK in February 2004. The first draw took place on February 13th 2004 in Paris. From the outset it was only these three countries who took part but a further 6 nations signed up towards the end of 2004; these were Austria, Belgium, the Republic of Ireland, Luxembourg, Portugal and Switzerland.

The EuroMillions generates enormous excitement throughout Europe each week and this is mainly due to the large jackpots on offer. These jackpots are large because they are funded from the sale of lottery tickets right across the nine participating member nations. The starting jackpot each week is £11 million but this is often a great deal more due to the frequency of "rollovers". When no ticket matches the drawn lottery numbers in a given week, the jackpot rolls forward to the following week growing in size as it does so.

Every individual wishing to play the EuroMillions picks 5 main numbers from 1 to 50 and 2 "Lucky Star" numbers from 1 to 9. As the draw takes place, 5 main numbers and 2 lucky star numbers are then selected at random from two draw machines containing numbered balls.

The odds of selecting all seven drawn numbers and scooping the jackpot are a distant 1 in 76 million but the overall odds of winning any cash prize are a favourable 1 in 24. Due to these fairly poor jackpot odds, it is common for there to be regular rollovers with jackpots reaching £40-£70 million and in some cases where there have been many rollovers, jackpots as high as £125 million have been created. Here is a selection of some of the biggest Euro Millions
wins:

  • In February 2008, the "Super Draw" jackpot of £130 million was collected by sixteen people who matched the 5 main numbers and 1 "Lucky Star" number.
  • On 10 August 2007, a 40 year old former Royal Mail postal administrator from Scotland secured a Euro lotto jackpot of £52.6 million. To date, this is the biggest lotto win yet in the UK.

On the 17th of November 2006, after rolling over 11 times, the Euro Millions jackpot reached £183 million and was split among 20 lucky ticket purchasers.

The majority of tickets sold for the EuroMillions lotto draw are bought from lottery retailers within the nine participating countries. However, there are a couple of ways to play the Euro Millions regardless of where you live globally. You can now purchase your desired number of EuroMillions tickets from a licensed online lottery ticket sales agent. The only downside is that you often have to pay a hefty premium for these tickets; usually 3-4 times more than the cost of a ticket purchased from one of the member countries.

Another playing option is to join one of e-Lottery’s EuroMillions syndicates. Of course, any winnings have to be shared out equally among all syndicate members but you do play with a vastly increased chance of winning. This is a great cost effective option if you are looking to cut your odds down to something a little more realistic.

Finding the Hottest Toys This Christmas

Finding the Hottest Toys This Christmas

The month of December can be a harried one for parents of young children right through until Boxing Day. Christmas wish lists are compiled by the yard and parents wear out the soles of their shoes going from store to store in a frequently futile attempt at finding the latest "must have" toys on the store shelves.

There are two main reasons why the hottest toys are often not anywhere to be found in stores near Christmas. The first is that there can be a higher demand for the toy than the manufacturer anticipated. Toys that are tied to movies are frequent victims of this. The toy manufacturer must have the product ready to ship before the movie comes out. If the movie turns out to be a blockbuster, the initial stock of the toy tie-in runs out and it takes time to ramp production up again. In the meantime, every child who has seen the movie wants the toy.

The second reason popular toys may be out of stock has to do with created demand. Psychologists who study marketing find that the desire for a product increases when one perceives that the supply is limited, meaning that if you think it will be soon sold out, you are more likely to run out and buy it.

Regardless of the reason why the superstar toys are in short supply, it can eat up a parent’s time and energy going from store to store to try to track them down. For many parents, Christmas shopping for their children means searching for non-existent mall parking spaces, battling other parents in an effort to acquire the last of the new hot toy on the shelf, and dealing with indifferent or rude cashiers.

Today’s smart parents turn to the internet to solve this problem. Most large and specialty toy retailers have an internet presence these days. You can simply browse through their online catalogue or search for a particular toy. Order it conveniently from your home or office and it will appear on your doorstep in a few days. No mall parking lots, no empty shelves, no stress headaches. You will pay for shipping in most cases, but many parents find that the gas and hassle savings make up for it. Viewing a store’s website also gives parents a wealth of useful information that often isn’t easy to gather when in a brick and mortar store. Most stores have their return policies, special order items, and links to manufacturers posted.

To make Christmas toy buying even easier, there are websites that allow you to comparison shop from store-to-store all in one place so you know that you’re getting the best price. This makes it easier to determine which stores still have the toy in stock and which are out. At some of these sites, such as www.choosetoys.co.uk, you can also find coupons and discount codes that make the purchase even less expensive.

While Christmas will never be completely stress-free, the internet has made it a lot easier for parents to make their children’s faces light up on Christmas morning.

How Fast is your Broadband Service

How Fast is your Broadband Service

In using the internet today, we are often visiting websites with rich media content. This means things like streaming music, streaming video, interactive gaming, or other bandwidth intensive applications. Broadband speed can therefore, have a dramatic impact upon our internet experience with these sites. Consider that at the bottom end of the range, a broadband speed of 256K will take as long as 3 minutes to download a typical five minute song. At the other extreme, an 8Mb broadband connection can transfer that same song instantaneously and deliver streaming video with television quality.

For discussion of broadband speeds we use either kilobits per second or Megabits per second as the standard units of measure. When discussing transfer rates one megabit per second, written as 1Mb, is 1000 times faster than one kilobit per second, written as 1K. This is different that the conversion rate used when discussing a computer’s storage capacity in which 1024 if the correct multiplier between Kb and Mb. Typically, broadband service is available at the following speeds listed from slowest to fastest: 256K, 512K, 1Mb, 2Mb, 4Mb, 6Mb, and 8Mb. Compare this to the 56K speed of standard dial up internet service.

When you choose a broadband supplier, you will also choose a connection speed. This will govern the maximum rate at which information is downloaded to your computer from the internet. Often the upload speed is different than a broadband supplier’s download speed. If you upload significant amounts of data to the internet, you may want to compare upload speeds as well, but for most internet users, this is not an important factor.

If you already have broadband internet service, you can check your actual broadband upload and download speeds by using a free broadband speed test. You will almost certainly find that your connection speed is considerably less than the maximum rate for which you signed up. You can also check the average actual connection speeds of various UK broadband suppliers to see who is the fastest as measured by Broadband.co.uk.

Connection speed is going to be most important to users who like to play graphic intensive online games such as Doom 3 or other games with immersive 3D environments. Games like online poker or Tetris, on the other hand, require relatively little bandwidth. If you frequently download large files, stream rich media content, or are an avid online gamer in the UK, then you may want to consider using an online service to compare broadband to locate the fastest connection speed that is available in your area.

If you’re not satisfied with your current broadband connection speed, and the comparison service shows that you could be doing better with another provider, it is quite easy to make the switch to a new broadband internet service provider. It can be done with a single phone call and a minute or two at the computer. For complete information on changing internet service providers, check out this handy three step guide.

Understanding Fermentation & Distillation

Understanding Fermentation & Distillation

Above all, one must clearly understand fermentation and distillation. These two chemical functions, one natural and the other artificially contrived, are the fundamental building blocks of liquor sophistication.

First, visualize a tub of freshly harvested wine grapes. They are luscious, juicy sweet to the taste, and each berry is covered with a wax-like bloom. That sticky substance on the skins traps millions of air-born, microscopic, plant-like organisms. These vital cells are commonly known as yeast.

When the grapes are crushed and the skins broken, the yeast cells enter into the grape juice and begin to break down the natural grape sugars. The thousands of yeast cells rapidly become millions. This process of sugar breakdown is called fermentation. In fermentation, enzymes are secreted by the yeast cells which transform the sugars into almost equal parts of ethyl alcohol and carbon dioxide.

Enzyme is a Greek word meaning “in yeast.” Enzymes are nonliving materials essential to all biological systems. In fermentation, there are at least twelve distinct enzymatic actions. So, grape fermentation is a quite complex chemical process. After fermentation ceases, the alcohol remains in the must with the spent yeast. The carbon dioxide has floated off into the atmosphere.

Fermentation, then, is a natural process. It can and does occur in the absence of man’s guiding hand. If a bird pecks open the skin of a grape, the yeast on the skin can enter the grape and make wine in the vineyard.

But, man is now very much involved in this process. To assure a more stable, longer and more productive fermentation period, most American winemakers wash away the wild yeasts from the skins’ and impregnate the juice with one or more predictable cultured yeasts.

The process is still natural-as this special yeast is also one of those found in the field. Since the winemaker harvests his grapes at the precise moment when they achieve the best balance of sugars and acids and he conducts the fermentation in laboratory conditions, his wines are very predictable and quite refined.

The rule of thumb to remember is that the alcohol level in wine is approximately one-half the volume of sugar in the grapes. Wine grapes are picked between 21 and 24 percent in sugar content. The resulting wines average 12 percent alcohol by volume.

The alcohol produced by this process is called ethanol, or ethyl alcohol. There are many other commercial applications for ethanol. It can be utilized as an anti-freeze agent. It is unsurpassed as a rubbing alcohol and commonly sterilizes hospital instruments. It-Is a familiar component in tinctures and beauty aids. It can be - an efficient source of combustion as it burns cleanly with intense heat-as you have undoubtedly noted with the brandy in Cherries Jubilee or Crepes Suzette.

With this process of fermentation creating a ready supply of wine alcohol, let us visualize the next step in the liquor chain called distillation. We place the fermented wine in a huge pot or tank and apply heat. Alcohol vaporizes at about 176 degrees Fahrenheit, a much lower temperature than the waters and grape solids in the wine. Water boils at 212 degrees Fahrenheit. The ethanol rises first as a steam and is captured and cooled in a series of copper condensing coils to produce a spirit or liquor, in this case called brandy-or distilled wine.

If we place this concentrated spirit back into another still and repeat the distilling process, we are re-distilling, and the second liquor produced will be .purer than the first.

To put it another way, we eliminate more congeners, or grape particles, each time we distill a product.

Now, let’s take a look at the proof, or percentage of alcohol in the liquor. Simply, the proof is twice the percentage of alcohol in the bottle. If we distilled the wine at 90 proof, we would produce forty-five percent alcohol by volume. The remaining fifty-five percent would. be composed of the other wine fluids and solids. Through re-distilling the same wine to reach 190 proof, we would create a neutral liquor of 95 percent alcohol and only 5 percent of the other wine constituents, mainly water. In all distilling, then, the important decision is the proof at which the liquor is taken from the still.

If, instead of using grapes or fruits, we utilize grains as fermenting materials, we must take an intermediate step called malting. This is accomplished by steeping the grains in warm water until they sprout. This sprouting is called germination, Through germination, another enzymatic action, the grain starches are transformed into sugars. At this. point, the material is called malt. It is placed in a mash tank with warm water where the sugars are extracted in what is then called sweet liquor, or a wort. Yeast is added to the wort and fermentation occurs just as it did with the natural fruit sugars in grapes, only now we have a beer. That’s what beer is-fermented sugars from malted grains. Many people are happy to stop at this point and enjoy their beers and ales, but the distiller places his beer in a still to produce the stronger liquors.

Hence, brandy is distilled wine and bourbon is distilled beer.

In commercial distilling, the patent or continuous still has the very considerable advantage of handling a continuous flow of wine or beer at the rate of hundreds of gallons per hour. The pot still is limited to a single pot or batch at a time. Consequently, the continuous still is used almost universally in American liquor making, but some pungent pot still spirits are produced for blending purposes.

The next step in the liquor-making chain is aging. Usually, the concentrated alcohol is cut or diluted with distilled or demineralized water to a lower proof before storage in fifty gallon oak barrels in huge warehouses. The gentle harmonizing effects of oxidation in the barrels proceed to create ‘a- mellow, palatable drink from the fiery young distillate. Sometimes charcoal or wood chip filtering is utilized to accelerate the aging process. During the aging period, the most offensive of the congeners are either eliminated or softened. Most liquors require a minimum of two years in wood, with the top effective limit for most being eight years. However, we still find on the market some brandies and other liquors aged in wood up to 25 years.

Rectifying is next. This function is closely monitored and controlled by the federal government for it is at this point that federal taxes of $10.50 are paid on each proof gallon. Indeed, from the firing up of the still to the sealing of the storebound bottles, agents of the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms are constant companions of the distiller.

Rectifying can include one or all of the following functions: blending of two different spirits such as a straight bourbon with neutral grain spirits; re-distillation of an already aged spirit to achieve an even lighter, more refined liquor; addition of coloring or flavoring agents, such as the caramel to provide a golden hue to liquor which is almost always naturally white; and, finally, redistillation over flavoring agents such as herbs and botanicals in making gin. It is in rectification that the artisan becomes the artist. The master liquor blender is a supreme judge who can select a blend from literally thousands of tastes and smells in his aging cellars.

From the marriage of twenty to thirty of these separate liquors, he creates the distinctive blends on which brand success and continuity are based.

Depending upon the liquor, the new blend may have another period of aging before the final step of bottling for sale. At this point, more distilled water is added to reduce the liquor to the final bottle proof. A curious phenomenon occurs in that one gallon of water and one gallon of ethanol combine to make slightly less than two even gallons. The reason is that the smaller ethanol molecules slip comfortably between the larger water molecules. But never fear, with the government at hand, your every bottle contains the proper amount of alcohol.

And, there you have it. Those are the steps in creating the spiritous products which Raymond Lully so poetically described in the 13th century as … “The emanation of divinity destined to revive the energies of modern decreptitude.”

Loss Gives Valuable Insight into the Grieving Process

It’s been seven years since the death of my sister. Yet, it feels in many ways like it was yesterday. Time has a peculiar way of sneaking up on us. Even today, one of the most difficult issues in dealing with her death is talking to others about it.

My experience was by no means the most difficult situation a person has had to deal with, but the circumstances of my loss have given me valuable insight into the grieving process.

When a loved one dies, grieving family members must make decisions often under great emotional duress. What kind of funeral should it be? Should they be buried or cremated, or donated to science? What am I legally required to do? How much is it all going to cost?Many of these questions sound callous in nature but have a need to be answer.

Offers funeral planning advice for a family’s executor. Features comparative models for interment services in the United States.

It was May 7, 1999. I was out with college friends and my girlfriend celebrating my completion of my Bachelors degree. Commencement ceremonies were scheduled for the next morning. In the middle of our friends’ band’s set, my dad called my pager and left the numbers 911. I was suspended in a mixed feeling of confusion and urgency. I called him back and learned that my sister Heather had been in an automobile collision and was being flown by MedEvac to the University Medical Center in Fresno, CA. I turned to my girlfriend, Jessi and told her what my father had said. We rushed to her truck and told our friends we had to go.

Immediately, there was a very surreal feeling to the entire situation. I found myself talking to myself, reassuring myself that everything was going to be alright. Jessi kept ringing in my ears messages of “emergency” and “helicopter,” fading in and out as my senses scrambled to understand the seriousness of the matter. The basic message I got from Jessi was “grave danger.”

When we arrived at the hospital, my senses continued to decline. Shock set in. I ran into the entrance. I was informed I had to go through a metal detector, a rather simple procedure which I do quite regularly. This evening, the simple request pushed a button in me. I broke into tears and shouts informing the woman of my situation and how my sister was in there. Her logical mind informed me that if she was in there it was likely I couldn’t do anything to help her. She told me that Heather was in the best possible care. She continued to inform me that if I would just calm down and go through the metal detector I can get into the building.

Although I consider myself a logical person, this had no bearing. It took the stern, but gentle guidance of my girlfriend to take me towards the metal detectors, assist me in emptying my pockets, and walk me through to the other side.

Shortly after arriving in the general waiting area, the rest of my close family and friends arrived. We were then escorted through the hospital up to the Intensive Care Unit and to a waiting room. We were met by a lovely woman who was a volunteer with the organization known as TIP (Trauma Intervention Program). She immediately took us into her care. She informed us of the current status of my sister, and told us that she would communicate between our family and the hospital staff. Anything that she could provide for us she would, she assured us.

Unfortunately many of the details of this experience are a blur. The ones that remain played a tremendous role in assisting me through my entire grieving process.

First, I was surrounded by family and loved ones. My parents and grandparents were all there. This was by no mistake. They had traveled to be with me and my family for my graduation. My aunt was there. So was our good friend. While waiting in limbo for some understanding of what Heather’s condition was, we passed the time trying to comfort and encourage one another. We recalled stories together. We cried together. We prayed together. It was the most emotionally, physically, and spiritually exhausting experience of my life. I kept hanging on to the hope that she would pull through.

I wanted to believe that God would make her well again, that she’d come out of it okay. Despite the knowledge I had of the injuries she had sustained, I wanted her to remain with us.

After hours of tears, laughter, prayers, and even a little sleep, I was awoken by the TIP counselor. She told me that my parents wanted to talk to me out in the lobby. I was still groggy with prayers on my lips and sleep in my eyes. I just barely remember being taken out to my parents holding one another in the hall. They looked at me. My mother called me to her. With tears streaming down her face, she told me that they had decided to tell the doctors to stop. They had done all they could do for her. We had to let her go.

After that, tears. Yelling. No, this isn’t happening! I recall an “I hate you for this!” To whom that was directed exactly, your guess is as good as mine. They walked me towards the door of the operating room. My mom wanted me to have the opportunity to see her.

As difficult as that was, what I saw has forever transformed my life. I saw something that resembled my sister, but had nothing of her spirit. I saw an operating room, a table, medical staff exhausted and grief stricken. I don’t think I completely realized it at the time, but this gave me a type of closure, something very important for one who is grieving.

I still had many stages in the grieving process to experience, but for the moment at least, I was experiencing a level of acceptance. It was still so immediate and surreal that I don’t think I comprehended what was happening. I knew that I was extremely sad, and that I felt extremely robbed. I understood, however, that what I saw on that operating table was not my sister. There was no life there, and she was full of life. This made things easier, somehow, and I managed to get the strength to make it to my apartment to lie down for about an hour. I woke up, showered, and got dressed for my graduation. When people ask me how I managed to attend a graduation in the midst of such an emotional time of my life, my response is “how could I not?” My choices were clear. I could admit total defeat and quit, or I could do what I knew my sister would want me to do and graduate.

For me, more than anything else, understanding that Heather was a spirit has been the most helpful thing in finding peace. That spirit was what I had come to know and love. I even admired her. I still do. As often as possible, I let the spirit move me and do things that she and I would have done: midnight runs to Taco Bell, dancing in front of a video camera, or eating graham crackers with chocolate frosting. I say things that I could imagine her saying. I was fortunate enough to receive some of her possessions. These things are all important for allowing her spirit to live on.

Finding the Perfect Holiday Gift

Finding the Perfect Holiday Gift

With the holiday season fast approaching it’s time to start thinking about what gifts you’re going to get for everyone on your list. You want something unique, yet not so unique that it’s just odd. You want something personal, but not so personal as to be awkward. Essentially, you want your gift to stand out and be talked about, but talked about in a good way. Fortunately, those are exactly the kind of gifts you’ll find at thetipsygrape.com. Even the name of the website is worthy of a good conversation.

I stopped by the website because I saw the name and was interested. Once I got there, the personality of the site had me hooked. In no time at all, I had found just the right gift for many of the people on my shopping list. I’m even getting a custom-engraved peppermill with my family name on it for my own kitchen. The site has a wide variety of kitchen items, but as the name implies, thetipsygrape.com focuses mainly on things associated with wine.

The site’s motto is "Because wine is fun" and the website is fun too. They offer all sorts of wine-related glassware, from glasses to decanters. Each can be ordered as is, or with custom engraving. The engraving option is a great choice if someone you know has had a significant event this year - a new house, a new baby, a marriage, winning the fantasy baseball league, or anything that they will want to remember forever. A bottle of wine and a couple of wine glasses engraved with "2008: First Christmas in our New House" makes a thoughtful gift that will get used with fond remembrance every season.

Every year up until now, I have had to spend hours in the crowded shops and malls looking for something, anything to buy for the people on my list. Every year I’ve vowed "never again." Finally, thanks to thetipsygrape.com, I can keep that vow and this year, I’ll be avoiding the crowds, the lines, and the endless time spent circling parking lots looking for a space. Of course, my sympathies will still be out there with those of you who don’t do your shopping at the thetipsygrape.com.

We all know there is no peace of mind like the peace of mind that comes from knowing you’ve got your holiday shopping out of the way early. When you can rest assured that you selected just the right gift for each person on your list, the only anxiety left is the difficulty you’ll have in waiting for the big day when the gifts are opened. That’s the kind of holiday stress that I can live with.

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